The path to full body orgasm starts in your body

Full body orgasm is a re-connection with your body. It's the ability to relax into intensity.

I used to take drugs to avoid feeling difficult emotions. That numbing capped how much pleasure I could feel — and I noticed it most watching my wife heal from pain and numbness during sex. As she expanded into orgasmic bliss, I was left asking myself: why don't I feel anything like that?

To feel more pleasure, I had to feel more of everything alive in my body — the good and the not so comfortable. Every coping mechanism costs energy. So you reclaim it, circulate it — and then expand into it. That's it.

Some men don't need the reclaiming — they can start straight in with circulating their energy. Some do. There's no shame in either.