Extraordinary Lovers 

About This Journey

If you're a couple ready to live as extraordinary lovers & life-partners and you are done putting your love-life at the end of the to-do list.

You love each other deeply, but routine has quietly replaced the spark you used to feel without "trying". You're committed to growth in every other area of your life—why shouldn't your relationship be the same?

The truth is: you don't need fixing. You need practices that work, clear guidance, and teachers who've lived this journey.

We created Extraordinary Lovers to give you exactly that. In 3 months, you'll master the complete pathway from good to extraordinary—learning how to create both deep emotional safety AND erotic excitement.

The result? You become the couple who consistently experiences intimacy that's deeper, richer, and more alive than your honeymoon phase—even when life is busy, even when you're tired, even when you start from zero.

Your Transformation Journey

Phase 1: Extraordinary Love Rituals Learn how to implement weekly rituals that consistently create moments where you both feel deeply seen, desired, and adored—laying the foundation for intimacy that thrives because of your commitment to each other.

Phase 2: Conscious Touch & Tantra Massage Discover how to give and receive touch that creates profound emotional and energetic connection—a touch-led meditation that opens doorways to altered states of consciousness, without needing years of spiritual training.

Phase 3: Tantric Lovemaking Initiation Learn a framework for lovemaking that amplifies passion, presence and pleasure. This is where you upgrade from "that was nice" to "I can't believe we get to experience this together."

Phase 4: Individual Deep-Dive Sessions Receive personalized guidance (men with Patrick, women with Laura) to work through your individual blocks. Sometimes the breakthrough happens when you have space to explore what's true for YOU—this is where transformation locks into place. 

Weekly Milestones

After Week 1: You'll know how to create sacred space that transforms any ordinary evening into an intimate experience

After Week 2: You'll have grounding practices that create instant safety and presence for deeper surrender and ecstasy.

After Week 3: You'll explore erotic mindfulness where sensual connection turns simple touch into blissful, present-moment experiences.

After Week 4: You'll confidently explore power dynamics that create electric attraction between you.

After Week 5: You'll use energy practices that transform physical intimacy into spiritual transcendence.

After Week 6: You'll own a complete toolkit you can use to create extraordinary connection for decades

After Week 7: You’ll be initiated into the fundamentals of conscious touch so you can transport each other into a dimension of yummy bliss

After Week 8: You will refine your massage skills to support partners nervous system for deep receiving 

After Week 9: You’ll learn the secrets of amplifying pleasure during a massage 

After Week 10: You’ll know how to expand presence and orgasmic energy through breath and touch 

After Week 11: You’ll learn the easiest way to tantric love-making that will open a portal into an ocean of timeless rapture

After Week 12: You will refine the techniques for prolonged pleasure and orgasm

Our Story

Ten years ago, Patrick and I fell madly in love. Full honeymoon phase—ecstatic, passionate, effortless.

Then, after about a year together, desire started fading. And it terrified me.

We tried to force spontaneity. We put pressure on ourselves to "be more sexual." We had conversations that just made us both feel worse—like something was broken.

For me (Laura): I needed something beyond just physical touch to feel desire. My body wouldn't open unless I felt emotionally safe and energetically connected first. But I didn't know how to create that.

For Patrick: I wanted to lead us into deeper connection, but I didn't have the skills. I felt performance anxiety because I was trying to make something happen instead of creating the conditions for it to naturally unfold.

Then we discovered tantric practices and conscious relating.

And we realised: Desire isn't something you wait for. It's something you cultivate.

Once we learned the actual practices, everything shifted. Laura could start with zero desire and within 20 minutes feel a beautiful surge of relaxation AND aliveness. Patrick learned to move sexual energy beyond his genitals and hold grounded presence.

Now, our intimacy is deeper, richer, and more alive than it was during our honeymoon phase.

We can transform an ordinary Tuesday evening into sacred connection time that leaves us completely fulfilled. We know exactly how to create the conditions for desire—even when we're busy, tired, or starting from zero.

This isn't special to us. These practices work for every couple we teach them to.

That's why we created Extraordinary Lovers.